Today was Amanda’s 26th birthday. I brought a card and chocolate from home for her and then last night after painting, Kaby gave us one of his weavings that looks like a scarf and we included that in her gift. She got a rendition of “Happy Birthday” this morning from us and again tonight from the Nigerian crew who had returned from their adventure at Cape Coast. We took the day off and went shopping, ate lunch at a deli by a modern hotel which was quite “Americanized” and the girls said it was such a great meal! (We’re all a little tired of the lack of variety in the diet here…rice, beans, chicken or fish, coleslaw type salad and pineapple…pretty much sums up every lunch and dinner menu). So a Panini sandwich with real meat on real bread was fabulous!
We took Taxi’s this morning down to “the Pit” as the missionaries call it. Local merchants/artists selling their wares out of their shacks. The minute we stepped out of the taxis they descended on us like wolves, each one wanting to show us their goods and take us to their shops (or rather booths). We all bought lots of things from nativity sets out of ebony wood, to carved bowls and animals, to jewelry and artwork. Lots of fun items here to buy and the bargaining was crazy. Everyone said they would start high and we should not pay more than half of what they asked…but then I would look at their little children running around and know that these people had very few customers and the difference in my bargaining price and what they wanted was usually less than $5 American dollars, so I would bargain for less but then pay them more. Camron said I was too soft. I was hoping my little extra helps to feed one more mouth another day. I gave a couple of the children a snack of fruit snacks (with their parent’s permission). The first little boy, about 2 years old, put one in his mouth and promptly spit it out. The adults tried them and ate them. They said it was too sweet for the little one. The other children I gave them to seemed to like them well enough.
After shopping and lunch we returned and Camron packed up his bags and headed to the airport as he is going to India. Just as we were ready to go find a taxi to take him to the airport, Elder Park, one of the senior missionary couples here, walked out of his room and offered to drive Camron. That was a nice surprise. The airport here says you need to check in 3 hours prior to your flight time so Camron was there at 3:30pm for a 6:30pm flight.
At 4:45pm I received a text from Camron saying the flight was already boarding…not quite understanding why you would board so early, but 45 minutes later he sent another text which read, “It turns out they were taking tickets to herd us into another waiting area. The facilities here are not like a normal airport. It’s like an airport from 50 years ago.” At 6:20pm Camron sent another text saying he was on the plane. He will not arrive in Chennai, India until Sunday night at 8:10pm (India is 12 ½ hours ahead of Salt Lake time…we’re not quite sure where the extra ½ hours comes in?). So, that means he is another 5 1/2 hours ahead of our time here in Ghana. That tells me he is not close. I’m excited for this next 10 day adventure for him and for the last two week adventure he’s had with me here in Ghana.
Early on in the project, we decided we wanted to give each worker a cash bonus for their help with the work here. Because there are so many, it is not as much as I would like, but we felt that it would still be a huge help to each one of them. Tonight, after Camron had gone and when the others had gone shopping again (I was definitely too tired to shop again), I gave each of the Nigerian crew their written note with their cash. It was dinner time and as I gave them their cards, I told them it was a small note of thanks and that they could open it later in their rooms. They put the cards in their pockets and got their meals.
After dinner we started playing games and slowly one by one (as they opened their cards, obviously) they came to me and expressed their sincere appreciation and gratitude for the gift. Oliver was the first and he came over and gave me a huge hug and almost seemed close to tears (which is so NOT Oliver, the temple engineer…the man in charge). He just said how grateful he was and how much I have taught him and his people and how amazing this experience has been. Later when I returned to my room and received my emails, this is what he had sent to me,
“Dear Alicyn,
On behalf of Aba Temple crew I write to express our thanks and appreciation for the love and care your crew showed to us especially you and beloved husband.
We came, ignorant of knowledge and skill of what we came for; you under looked our ignorance, brought us close like your blood children, showed us motherly love and care and impacted necessary knowledge and skills we lack!
We pray Heavenly Father continue to enlarge your wisdom, knowledge and skills to continue to make a difference in this profession. Having added an additional ascetics beauty to the Lords house, the Lord will open the windows of heaven and pour you and family blessing even more job opportunities!
Our wife and children will ever remain grateful for your magnanimity and selflessness. We promise you that we will replicate all that you taught us in Aba Temple.
Thank you! thank you! ! and God bless and keep you. We love and cherish you and team.
Oliver Azuonwu.”
I will cherish these sweet words he wrote forever. I am so grateful for the opportunity I have had to be here and work with these amazing people and learn to love them as truly my friends and brothers and sisters. It’s amazing how so often we look at color and race as something different, but as I spend time with each of them each day, I really look at them as individuals, not as black and white but as each unique person, and I’m actually amazed that I forget the color of their skin until I see a photo of us together, and then I see how “white” I am. They are such beautiful people!
Alicyn